😏 it's about tommy. he's worried about the elemental powers he's developed since coming here, and since they're manifesting as ice.. i know it's not the same thing, but i was hoping maybe you could give him some advice?
he sort of has them under control, but he froze a hotel room once, then caused a hailstorm sometime later. he has a wide enough range that he's pretty spooked about it, but don't tell him i told you that.
related: pretty sure the ice is just a sign that he also has magic and it's finally starting to wake up properly. he's VERY worried about that.
he didn't feel all that magical the last time we hung out but i was a bit distracted i could message him if you like, should you think he would speak to me about this
yeah, i'm not sure it's particularly strong (yet?), but let's just say that i wouldn't be surprised if he at least has SOME ability. i mean, considering how we were originally created, it would be stranger for him not to, wouldn't it?
do you mind bringing it up the next time we hang out instead? i want to give him a little time.
it has always been super duper weird only one of you has magic, given your parentage and nature of, you know ... all that, yes i assumed you sort of accidentally gobbled it all up and tommy was left with whatever was physical
billy i stg sometimes i know YOU aren't, gods above what i mean to say is, at ONE point you were dating one i don't want to make it into something sexual if he isn't ready, and i don't want the sexual part to be like ... me taking something away from him, because i KIND OF convinced him not to wait for his boring boyfriend back home and give me a try 03:) only, like, it worked
tbh teddy and i were both virgins, so i'm not really sure any advice i'd have would apply well to your situation, you know? we discovered our sex life together.
i guess what i CAN say is that if this is something he's anxious about, treat it with some of the consideration and gravity he's clearly giving it. not all of it, maybe, because you don't want to make him MORE anxious. show him you understand it's important, that his first time is important to you specifically, if that makes sense?
honestly, i think you'll do fine. you nudge boundaries a little sometimes to see if they're firm, but you always respect them, and you're pretty intuitive about what people need from you. just listen to what he's saying, pay attention to his body language, check in often, and in this case, it's best not to poke at any sexual boundaries he's setting.
idk if any of that helps.
has he been aware of his sexuality for long? like how much does he know about sex between men?
ok cool, i'm doing all that but i wanted to check with you it was actually the right thing thanks, jimminy!
he got flustered kissing me at a picnic, i don't think he's gotten farther than youtube tutorials for the basics and is skittish because of his lack of experience should i show him my drawer of sex toys, do you think? so he can choose one?
no. no, no, do NOT do that, omg. idk if he's the type to talk to someone about it, but if he is, you can let him know he can message me or meet up if he has questions or anything. i'm harmless-looking and i've both topped and bottomed and more importantly, i'm not his tease of a godly boyfriend(?).
i'm not a tease! i would never have flirted if i wasn't willing to bang him on the spot! i don't want you talking to him, you'll tell him i'm a Sexy Dangerous Bitch or something and while that may be 100% true he'll swoon afresh and start fretting even more than he is already 3:/
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it's about tommy. he's worried about the elemental powers he's developed since coming here, and since they're manifesting as ice..
i know it's not the same thing, but i was hoping maybe you could give him some advice?
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ok so, how's he doing with them? frozen a cat lately? got a hold on them?
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related: pretty sure the ice is just a sign that he also has magic and it's finally starting to wake up properly. he's VERY worried about that.
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i could message him if you like, should you think he would speak to me about this
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do you mind bringing it up the next time we hang out instead? i want to give him a little time.
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i assumed you sort of accidentally gobbled it all up and tommy was left with whatever was physical
i'll be subtle, i can do that 3:)
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you're a babe, thanks loki.
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now they're catching up to him for Revenge(TM) 3:o
hey, left field but can you advise me on something too? namely, dating a virgin >o>! (i know, don't say it)
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what advice are you looking for? i'm not sure if you know this about me, but i haven't been a virgin in a long time.
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i know YOU aren't, gods above
what i mean to say is, at ONE point you were dating one
i don't want to make it into something sexual if he isn't ready, and i don't want the sexual part to be like ... me taking something away from him, because i KIND OF convinced him not to wait for his boring boyfriend back home and give me a try 03:)
only, like, it worked
and he's actually very nice
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i guess what i CAN say is that if this is something he's anxious about, treat it with some of the consideration and gravity he's clearly giving it. not all of it, maybe, because you don't want to make him MORE anxious. show him you understand it's important, that his first time is important to you specifically, if that makes sense?
honestly, i think you'll do fine. you nudge boundaries a little sometimes to see if they're firm, but you always respect them, and you're pretty intuitive about what people need from you. just listen to what he's saying, pay attention to his body language, check in often, and in this case, it's best not to poke at any sexual boundaries he's setting.
idk if any of that helps.
has he been aware of his sexuality for long? like how much does he know about sex between men?
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thanks, jimminy!
he got flustered kissing me at a picnic, i don't think he's gotten farther than youtube tutorials for the basics and is skittish because of his lack of experience
should i show him my drawer of sex toys, do you think? so he can choose one?
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no. no, no, do NOT do that, omg.
idk if he's the type to talk to someone about it, but if he is, you can let him know he can message me or meet up if he has questions or anything. i'm harmless-looking and i've both topped and bottomed and more importantly, i'm not his tease of a godly boyfriend(?).
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i don't want you talking to him, you'll tell him i'm a Sexy Dangerous Bitch or something and while that may be 100% true he'll swoon afresh and start fretting even more than he is already 3:/
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this is unprecedented
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who is this guy, anyway? how'd you meet him?
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he's the vigilante called robin but i didn't tell you that
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is he bird-themed?
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it's all very "i want to devour him whole", honestly
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what happened when you went home, what was going on? give the goss!
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